Vincent Silver Posted June 10, 2003 Report Posted June 10, 2003 You hurt me With the simple note With a few simple words it was over It seems it was just yesterday I was saying how I loved you But now it seems that everyday you're gone I listen to the songs that remind me of you I cry myself to blissful memories I run my heart dry with my tears of blood And try to remember the days I had you But that simple note A few steps out the door You hurt me more than I can understand ______________________________ This poem is about my girlfrind who just broke up with me today,I guess this is my first step in healing...
Peredhil Posted June 10, 2003 Report Posted June 10, 2003 ooohph. A gut poem. In my experience, it does help (me at least) to get the feeling outside enough to put into words. For some people, words when deeply feeling come easily. For me, that isn't the case. Hugs
Vigil StarGazer Posted June 10, 2003 Report Posted June 10, 2003 the seven stage of recovery: 1) Shock - the victim is stunned and refuse believe that his/her relationship is over. 2) Anger - the anger of misunderstand... "What did I ever do wrong?" 3) Fustration - asking why everything happened, usually placing blame on others for the events that happened. Also Victim would attempt futile recoveries on previous relationship. 4) Depression - Critical stage where victim's initial hormones and adlrenlin cooled down and the biofeed of negative neuton finally caught up to the brain... Victim would feel helplessness as well as a lack of self-worth. 5) Isolation - Victim return to a semi-awaken state where he/she questions all his relationship, hoping to avoid similar circumstances from occuring... because he feels vunerable he will withdraw from socity to avoid feeling the pain again. 6) Void - semi-recovery stage where victim will re-establish bonds after isolation ... the wound would still be tender but the painful memories will disappear, replaced as new experience filters into the victim's memories 7) RECOVERY - Finally the victim is recovered from the ordeal... note that scars will still be present in lonely nites with empty beds... but the degrees of pain will be severly lessened. Former Victim will once again attempt to restable stable bonds with society (ie. hook up with another partner and gets the boot again... and the cycles starts again)
Nobody of Consequence Posted June 10, 2003 Report Posted June 10, 2003 /me peers at LotG [/cynicism] My grandparents are celebrating their DIAMOND anniversary this year. That's right, 60 years of togetherness. They've not been without their trials, but you look at the two of them, and you _know_ they love each other.
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