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Learning to Live Without the Grief


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Guest Heart Like A Hole
Posted

she doesn't like to admit that everything is going okay

she doesn't have a reason to complain

still she does it anyway

she likes to pretend that her cup isn't full

what's living for

if she isn't miserable?

 

someone hit the switch and all the lights are on

she has to face reality

but the reality is, she doesn't have to be a victim

she doesn't have to bleed

then why isn't she satisfied

if she's got everything she needs?

 

clinging to the shadows

quickly dispelled by morning light

she's determined to be unhappy

this laughter she will fight

why does she need the pain

when nothing is the same

the look in his eyes could erase all the shame

but she runs away

when it looks like things might be okay

 

the pain is fading

so she tears again

tracing scabs until they reopen

inventing disgraces

for her thousand faces

it's such a shame

she still complains

what's living for

if she isn't stained?

 

she learned to run a long while back

hiding was commonplace

as were the tears on her face

she doesn't know how to be happy

how to find contentment in prosperity

seems life is too much to live

if the agony is dying

she'd rather be bleeding

oh she'd rather be crying

 

what do you do when pain is all you know

and suddenly you wake to find the pain has flown

and you are left with happiness

upon your shelf

and you can't give any reasons

for why you hate yourself?

Posted

Nothing is scarier than happiness - except change itself, and changing from misery to happiness is therefore a double whammy. To be happy is to be vulnerable to disapointment. At least misery is dependable, at least with misery things can only get better. It is therefore very seductive.

 

The answer is to make friends with your misery, with loneliness, with anger, with your addictions, and with disapointment. Accept and make friends with just what you are and what is going on at that moment. Do not be a lab rat that constantly reacts to life by striveing for pleasure and avoiding pain. When we cease to be dependant on happiness, it ceases to control our lives, and ceases to be scary.

 

One word; Samsara

~Zool~

 

Ancient, The Pen is Mightier than the Sword.

 

Bard of Terra, Patron Saint of Aspiring Bards.

 

Elder than dirt, more foolish than a jester, able to trip over the smallest logic in a single step. It's... Oh, you know.

Edited by: Zool47  at: 6/7/02 7:26:21 am

Posted

I agree with Zool, but also, sometimes we try to disguise feelings of self-dissatisfaction with anger at something else. When that displacement is removed, we are surprised and are left to wonder why we still feel all of this.

 

Very nice work

Guest Xradion
Posted

        Your work always amazes me with its depth and insight. I don't have much to offer other than saying that I sympathize with your plight. I myself have fallen victim to this trap at times. Thankfully, you are aware of the problem of wallowing (or should I say basking) in self-loathing. This is the first step to regaining your self-confidance. Of course, I don't know if this is truly autobiographical or not. Regardless, excellent job! Nice depressing stuff! (I don't mean this sarcastically. Call me desturbed, but I often enjoy reading depressing poems of this nature). Keep it up! And good luck in all your publishing endeavors!

 

 

 

Xradion,

The Horny Druid,

Scholar of the Ancient Arts,

Holder of the Eye of Odin.

 

"The only emperor is the emperor of ice-cream."

-Wallace Stevens

 

"When at home, do as the Homans do." –Xradion

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